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Co-dependency, Enmeshment, Enabling

"Who can so softly bind up the wound of another as he
who has felt the same wound himself?"
Thomas Jefferson

"You may not realize it when it happens,
but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you."
Walt Disney

 
 
The Compulsion to Repeat the Trauma
Re-enactment, Revictimization, and Masochism by Bessel A. van der Kolk, MD
 

Characteristics of Co-dependency (CoDA site)
http://www.coda.org/codapatt.html

Co-dependency and the 'Rescuer' Behaviour
http://www.drirene.com/cofam.htm

Negative Bonding - The Rescuer and Bird with the Broken Wing
http://www.growingaware.com.au/BONDING_CASES4.htm

Love and Stockholm Syndrome: The Mystery of Loving an Abuser by Joseph Carver, PhD
http://www.drjoecarver.com/stockholm.html

Overcoming the Need to Fix
http://www.coping.org/control/fixing.htm

Tell Me More About Control Why do abusers & victims both appear abusive? by Dr. Irene
http://www.drirene.com/tellme.htm

The Enabling Personality
http://www.coping.org/lowesteem/enable.htm

Enabling vs. Helping (Borderline PD)
http://www.borderlinepersonality.ca/borderenabling.htm

Miranda Shaw - The Life of One Narcissistic Enabler
http://www.angelfire.com/home/mirandashaw/

Joy2meUsite Robert Burney

Twisted Co-dependent Thinking
http://joy2meu.com/Codependent_thinking.html

Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls by Robert Burney Joy2MeU site
http://www.joy2meu.com/Codependence3.htm

Co-Dep Dysfunctional Relationship dynamics

Breaking Free from Co-Dependence by Kathi Stringer
http://www.toddlertime.com/interest/co-dependence.htm

Co-dependents.org
http://www.codependents.org/

Personal Responsibility - Ending Co-dependence
http://www.geocities.com/kerry_l_dennis/MPD/Articles/responsibility.html

Emotional Abuse site Robert Burney: Co-dependency/Inner child
http://www.suite101.com/welcome.cfm/codependency_recovery

Abandonment/Engulfment Issues
http://www.growingaware.com.au/selves_cannot_help_with_abandonm.htm

Understanding and Changing Self Defeating Beliefs
http://www.rational.org.nz/public/BeliefsQuestionnaire/welcome1.htm

A 12-Step Online Workbook
http://www.proactive-coach.com/12steps/how-to.htm

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