NARCISSISTIC_PERSONALITY

Abuse Awareness 2

"The single best way to ruin your life is to have
a romantic relationship with someone with a lot of problems
and believe that you could change them."
How to Ruin Your Life by Ben Stein

You attract yourself to relationships that fit you
http://www.crosswalk.com/singles/11555893/page1/

Injustice Collectors by Mark Sichel
http://www.sideroad.com/Family_Life/dysfunctional-family.html

Abandonment
http://www.abandonment.net/

I Can Change Him - The Fixer-Uppers
http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/i-can-change-him-syndromefixer-uppers/

Stress Reduction Techniques
http://www.mindtools.com/stresstq.html

Can't Let Go of a Bad Relationship? by Susan Anderson
http://blog.thirdage.com/?p=571

Emotional Abuse - The Most Common form of Abuse
http://www.kalimunro.com/article_emotional_abuse.html

Spiritual and Psychological Abuse (good description of Ns and Ps
http://letthelightout.com/index.php?sid=2

The Power of Detachment by Scarlette McCallum
http://detachmentpower.blogspot.com/2006/04/power-of-detachment.html

Recognizing Emotional Abuse
http://www.thenetteam.net/abuse.html

Healing Emotional Abuse
http://www.designedthinking.com/Fear/Abuse/abuse.html

How To Stop Absorbing The Energy of Others by Judith Orloff MD
http://www.drjudithorloff.com/stopAbsorbing.asp

Lies abusers tell their victims
http://www.hhhh.org/maia/lies.html

Romantic Deception. Is He Lying?
http://www.nodeception.com/articles/romantic_deception.jsp

Recognizing Emotional Manipulation
http://recognizethesigns.tripod.com/index.html
Fearless Living - Mastering Fear
http://www.fearlessliving.org/

The Drama Triangle, Steve Karpman and Patty Fleener MSW
http://www.mental-health-today.com/articles/drama.htm

Stop Excusing Inexcusable Behavior - Dr. Phil
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/323

Eliminating Negative Internal Dialogue Dr. Phil
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/4

BrainScan shows rejection pain
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/3178242.stm

Boundary Violations in Relationship
http://www.web-street.com/thingsarelookinup/Boundaries/Boundaries-Violations.htm

Articles by Lynne Forrest
http://lynneforrest.com/html/archives.html

Why Do People Chose One Bad Relationship After Another?
http://www.voicelessness.com/repetition.html

Repeating the Familiar - Attracted to the Wrong Person
http://www.heartrelationships.com/ARTICLES/Sabotaginga
Relationship/AttractedtotheWrongPerson.htm

From Victim to Survivor �?The Emotions of the Abuse Survivor
http://www.brokenspirits.com/information/the_victim.asp

Multiplicity, Abuser and Healing Network
http://www.m-a-h.net/index.html

What do you say when you talk to yourself?
http://www.leadersdirect.com/talkself.html

National Association for Self Esteem
http://www.self-esteem-nase.org/

Tips for Good Self Esteem
http://members.aol.com/dswgriff/selfesteem.html

Stages of Healing - mentions 'drinking', but applies equally to what we're going through. Highly recommended on several websites.
http://www.psychologyhelp.com/chng41.htm

Stages of Healing
http://edumped.com/healingstages.html

Passive-Aggressive Homestead site
http://www.passiveaggressive.homestead.com/
http://www.passiveaggressive.homestead.com/PATraits.html

Links and Information on Emotional Abuse and more (parents and partners)...
http://www.webheights.net/GrowingbeyondEmotionalAbuse/articles.htm

Martyrs and Mothers - Women Who Sacrifice Themselves
http://www.cyberparent.com/women/martyrs.htm

The Manipulator Files - The Heartless Bitches International Site
http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/manipulator/manip.shtml

Abusive Relationships and Toxic Guilt by Patty E. Fleener M.S.W
http://www.mental-health-today.com/articles/abuse.htm

Emotional Abuse of Women by Their Intimate Partners V.J. Packota, MSW
http://www.womanabuseprevention.com/html/emotional_abuse_literature_rev.html

Rages and Ragers
http://www.web-street.com/thingsarelookinup/Abuse/Rage-Anger.shtml
http://www.recovery-man.com/abusive/rage_vs_anger.htm

Anger in Intimate Relations
http://www.centersite.org/psyhelp/chap7/chap7i.htm

Givers and Takers
http://www.ministryhealth.net/mh_articles/239_101_plus_differences_givers_vs_takes.html

Survivor's Empowerment Zone
http://www.angelfire.com/in4/sez/index.html

Olympic Sport Psychology Lessons in Mental Focusing
http://www.mindpub.com/art157.htm

Visualization Tactics
http://www.imt.net/~randolfi/visual.html

Shifting Roles in Abusive Relationships
http://psychcentral.com/library/id88.html