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"When divorce is unavoidable, prepare to play one of the most vicious, unfair, hardball games in American culture. Your preparation...is critical."
DIVORCE - The Real Truth, The Hidden Dangers Surviving Deception, Betrayal and Narcissism
Ann Bradley, M.A.
http://www.narcissisticabuse.com/divorcebook.html


Splitting - Divorcing the Borderline or Narcissist byAttorney William Eddy
http://www.bpdcentral.com/bks/spy.shtml

DIVORCE - The Real Truth, The Hidden Dangers Surviving Deception, Betrayal and Narcissism - Ann Bradley, M.A.
http://www.narcissisticabuse.com/divorcebook.html

Winning the Child Custody War
http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/07/15/book-review-win-your-child-custody-war/

Offer of Judgement (?prevent ongoing litigation)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Offer_of_judgment

Divorce and the Narcissist in Court
http://www.narcissisticabuse.com/divorce.html

Divorcing the Narcissist and the 'system'
http://darksideofdv.blogspot.com/

Tips and FAQs of divorcing the N or P.
http://survivorquotes.bravehost.com/tips.html

Pathological Parenting by Sandra Brown, MA
http://www.pathologicalparenting.bravehost.com/

Abusers who get custody
http://stopfamilyviolence.org/ocean/host.php?page=468&T=

"Love and Loathing" Kreger/Williams
http://www.bpdcentral.com/bks/loathing.shtml

Eddy Law site
http://www.eddylaw.com/

William Eddy Articles
http://www.eddylaw.com/articles.htm

Right of First Refusal (get this added to your custody agreement)
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/firstrefusal.php

High Conflict People in Legal Disputes
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0972953604/002-8754732-3316802?v=glance&n=283155

SPARC Separated Parents Access and Resource Centre - Check their article archive
http://www.deltabravo.net/

Steps to Protecting Yourself During Divorce
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/protect.htm


"When a woman steals your man, there is no better revenge
than to let her keep him." Sacha Guitry


Women's Legal Help
http://www.womenslaw.org/

A Guide to the Parenting Evaluation Process
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/guide.htm

SPARC FAQ site
http://www.deltabravo.net/faq/

Tips on Keeping Documentation
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/tips1.htm

Articles at Sparcs
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/articles.php

Worst-Cast Scenarios
http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2008/01/15/worst-case-scenarios-at-the-battered-women-conference/

Understanding the Batterer in Custody Situations (MUST READ!!)
http://www.wcwonline.org/wrn/lundy.pdf
http://www.scarlettespeaks.com/id24.html
http://www.thelizlibrary.org/liz/understanding-the-batterer-in-visitation-and-custody-disputes.pdf

ASSESSING RISK TO CHILDREN FROM BATTERERS Bancroft/Silverman
http://www.ncdsv.org/images/assessing_risk_to_kids.pdf
http://domestic-violence.tripod.com/Child%20Custody/assessing.htm

The Parenting of Men Who Batter - Bancroft
http://aja.ncsc.dni.us/courtrv/cr39-2/CR39-2Bancroft.pdf

Legal System Failures
http://www.lovefraud.com/06_legalSystemFailures/legal_system_failures.html

The Batterer as Parent - Bancroft
http://www.lundybancroft.com/pages/articles_sub/SYNERGY.htm

Grounds for Mental Cruelty (Tip:also search adultery/insanity grounds)
http://www.divorcenet.com/states/illinois/ilart_13

also, research withholding knowledge of mental problems  divorce/annulment 

Parenting Co-ordinator
http://www.yoursocialworker.com/s-articles/Parenting_Coordinator.htm

Custody Preparation for Mothers (articles)
http://www.custodyprepformoms.org/articles.htm

Divorcing the Narcissist
http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/5.html

The Narcissist in Court
http://samvak.tripod.com/faq78.html

Divorce/Separation Articles
http://www.yoursocialworker.com/sep-dev.htm

VideoClips on Divorce/Separation/Managing of Children etc by Gary Direnfeld, MSN RSW
http://www.yoursocialworker.com/video.htm

Pathologizing the Victim by Sam Vaknin
http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTICPERSONALITYDISORDER/
toxicrelationshipspathologizingthevictim.msnw

High Conflict Divorce
http://www.futureofchildren.org/information2826/information_show.htm?doc_id=75590

High Conflict Divorce or Stalking in Family Court? The Empowerment of a Wealthy Abuser in Family Court Litigation Linda v. Lyle - A Case Study
http://www.mincava.umn.edu/documents/linda/linda.shtml#top

Stalking Through the Courts
http://www.gate.net/~liz/liz/FRtactic.html

Abusive Stalking in the Courts
http://www.angelfire.com/in4/sez/pageeleven.html

Dumb Mistakes Mothers Sometimes Make
http://www.custodyprepformoms.org/dmmsm.htm

10 Common Mistakes and Oversights in Divorce Agreements (Related to the Children)
http://www.divorcesource.com/NJ/ARTICLES/jessani11.html

Dirty Tricks
http://www.smartdivorce.com/articles/dirty.shtml

Common Divorce Mistakes
http://www.nhdivorce.com/mistakes.htm#q3

Parallel Parenting -  a form of joint child custody
http://www.yoursocialworker.com/s-articles/parallel_parenting.htm
http://www.wordspy.com/words/parallelparenting.asp

10 Reasons to Try Divorce Mediation by William Eddy
http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/articles/divorce/mediat.html

12 Steps for a Mother to Lose Her Children in divorce
http://nafcj.org/12StepsMotherLoseCustody.htm

Can I Deny Visitation?
http://www.divorcesource.com/info/questions/visitation.shtml

Winning Custody website
http://www.winningcustody.net/

Legal Issues in difficult custody cases
http://www.leadershipcouncil.org/1/pas/1.html

Winning Custody (Book)
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/031225265X/qid=1022599554/sr=2-1/ref=sr_2_1/103-2255181-1224652?n=283155

Biased Family Court System Hurts Mothers - Garland Waller
http://www.womensenews.org/article.cfm/dyn/aid/641

Custody Hint: Notify your X and his lawyer you intend to record all phone conversations and contact.


i“One of the important lessons I learned is that it isn't necessary to answer all questions or defend yourself against stupid comments, remarks and accusations. One of the best ways to disarm someone who is being offensive is to respond by saying "I am sorry you feel that way!" It really catches them off guard.�?
Dr. Reena Sommer


Resource Centre on Domestic Violence, Child Protection and Custody
http://www.nal.usda.gov/pavnet/cf/cfrcdomv.htm

Divorce Dictionary
http://www.divorcesupport.com/divorce/Divorce-Dictionary-136.html

Hints for Divorcing Parents - Explaining to Children etc.
http://www.realtime.net/~mmjw/jw.htm

Free e-book Divorce/Custody (Dr. Reena Sommers)
http://www.reenasommerassociates.mb.ca/info_products/handbook_intro.html

Alliance for Non-Custodial Parents Rights
http://www.ancpr.org/

Getting Through a Divorce the Right Way
http://www.post-gazette.com/healthscience/20001219hdivorce3.asp

Managing Your Divorce - A Guide for Battered Women
http://www.ncjfcj.org/dept/fvd/publications/main.cfm?Action=PUBGET&Filename=managing_divorce.pdfLegal

Evil People in Divorce
http://www.cfli.com/Evil.html

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