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"When divorce is unavoidable, prepare to play one of the most vicious, unfair, hardball games in American culture. Your preparation...is critical."
DIVORCE - The Real Truth, The Hidden Dangers Surviving Deception, Betrayal and Narcissism
Ann Bradley, M.A.
http://www.narcissisticabuse.com/divorcebook.html
Splitting - Divorcing the Borderline or Narcissist byAttorney William Eddy
http://www.bpdcentral.com/bks/spy.shtml
DIVORCE - The Real Truth, The Hidden Dangers Surviving Deception, Betrayal and Narcissism - Ann Bradley, M.A.
http://www.narcissisticabuse.com/divorcebook.html Winning the Child Custody War
http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/07/15/book-review-win-your-child-custody-war/ Offer of Judgement (?prevent ongoing litigation)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Offer_of_judgment
Divorce and the Narcissist in Court
http://www.narcissisticabuse.com/divorce.html Divorcing the Narcissist and the 'system'
http://darksideofdv.blogspot.com/ Tips and FAQs of divorcing the N or P.
http://survivorquotes.bravehost.com/tips.html Pathological Parenting by Sandra Brown, MA
http://www.pathologicalparenting.bravehost.com/ Abusers who get custody
http://stopfamilyviolence.org/ocean/host.php?page=468&T=
"Love and Loathing" Kreger/Williams
http://www.bpdcentral.com/bks/loathing.shtml Eddy Law site
http://www.eddylaw.com/
William Eddy Articles
http://www.eddylaw.com/articles.htm Right of First Refusal (get this added to your custody agreement)
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/firstrefusal.php
High Conflict People in Legal Disputes
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0972953604/002-8754732-3316802?v=glance&n=283155 SPARC Separated Parents Access and Resource Centre - Check their article archive
http://www.deltabravo.net/
Steps to Protecting Yourself During Divorce
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/protect.htm
"When a woman steals your man, there is no better revenge
than to let her keep him." Sacha Guitry
Women's Legal Help
http://www.womenslaw.org/ A Guide to the Parenting Evaluation Process
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/guide.htm
SPARC FAQ site
http://www.deltabravo.net/faq/
Tips on Keeping Documentation
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/tips1.htm
Articles at Sparcs
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/articles.php Worst-Cast Scenarios
http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2008/01/15/worst-case-scenarios-at-the-battered-women-conference/ Understanding the Batterer in Custody Situations (MUST READ!!)
http://www.wcwonline.org/wrn/lundy.pdf
http://www.scarlettespeaks.com/id24.html
http://www.thelizlibrary.org/liz/understanding-the-batterer-in-visitation-and-custody-disputes.pdf ASSESSING RISK TO CHILDREN FROM BATTERERS Bancroft/Silverman
http://www.ncdsv.org/images/assessing_risk_to_kids.pdf
http://domestic-violence.tripod.com/Child%20Custody/assessing.htm
The Parenting of Men Who Batter - Bancroft
http://aja.ncsc.dni.us/courtrv/cr39-2/CR39-2Bancroft.pdf
Legal System Failures
http://www.lovefraud.com/06_legalSystemFailures/legal_system_failures.html The Batterer as Parent - Bancroft
http://www.lundybancroft.com/pages/articles_sub/SYNERGY.htm Grounds for Mental Cruelty (Tip:also search adultery/insanity grounds)
http://www.divorcenet.com/states/illinois/ilart_13 also, research withholding knowledge of mental problems divorce/annulment Parenting Co-ordinator
http://www.yoursocialworker.com/s-articles/Parenting_Coordinator.htm
Custody Preparation for Mothers (articles)
http://www.custodyprepformoms.org/articles.htm
Divorcing the Narcissist
http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/5.html
The Narcissist in Court
http://samvak.tripod.com/faq78.html Divorce/Separation Articles
http://www.yoursocialworker.com/sep-dev.htm VideoClips on Divorce/Separation/Managing of Children etc by Gary Direnfeld, MSN RSW
http://www.yoursocialworker.com/video.htm
Pathologizing the Victim by Sam Vaknin
http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTICPERSONALITYDISORDER/
toxicrelationshipspathologizingthevictim.msnw High Conflict Divorce
http://www.futureofchildren.org/information2826/information_show.htm?doc_id=75590 High Conflict Divorce or Stalking in Family Court? The Empowerment of a Wealthy Abuser in Family Court Litigation Linda v. Lyle - A Case Study
http://www.mincava.umn.edu/documents/linda/linda.shtml#top
Stalking Through the Courts
http://www.gate.net/~liz/liz/FRtactic.html
Abusive Stalking in the Courts
http://www.angelfire.com/in4/sez/pageeleven.html Dumb Mistakes Mothers Sometimes Make
http://www.custodyprepformoms.org/dmmsm.htm
10 Common Mistakes and Oversights in Divorce Agreements (Related to the Children)
http://www.divorcesource.com/NJ/ARTICLES/jessani11.html
Dirty Tricks
http://www.smartdivorce.com/articles/dirty.shtml
Common Divorce Mistakes
http://www.nhdivorce.com/mistakes.htm#q3 Parallel Parenting - a form of joint child custody
http://www.yoursocialworker.com/s-articles/parallel_parenting.htm
http://www.wordspy.com/words/parallelparenting.asp
10 Reasons to Try Divorce Mediation by William Eddy
http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/articles/divorce/mediat.html 12 Steps for a Mother to Lose Her Children in divorce
http://nafcj.org/12StepsMotherLoseCustody.htm Can I Deny Visitation?
http://www.divorcesource.com/info/questions/visitation.shtml Winning Custody website
http://www.winningcustody.net/ Legal Issues in difficult custody cases
http://www.leadershipcouncil.org/1/pas/1.html Winning Custody (Book)
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/031225265X/qid=1022599554/sr=2-1/ref=sr_2_1/103-2255181-1224652?n=283155 Biased Family Court System Hurts Mothers - Garland Waller
http://www.womensenews.org/article.cfm/dyn/aid/641 Custody Hint: Notify your X and his lawyer you intend to record all phone conversations and contact.
i“One of the important lessons I learned is that it isn't necessary to answer all questions or defend yourself against stupid comments, remarks and accusations. One of the best ways to disarm someone who is being offensive is to respond by saying "I am sorry you feel that way!" It really catches them off guard.�?
Dr. Reena Sommer
Resource Centre on Domestic Violence, Child Protection and Custody
http://www.nal.usda.gov/pavnet/cf/cfrcdomv.htm Divorce Dictionary
http://www.divorcesupport.com/divorce/Divorce-Dictionary-136.html Hints for Divorcing Parents - Explaining to Children etc.
http://www.realtime.net/~mmjw/jw.htm
Free e-book Divorce/Custody (Dr. Reena Sommers)
http://www.reenasommerassociates.mb.ca/info_products/handbook_intro.html
Alliance for Non-Custodial Parents Rights
http://www.ancpr.org/ Getting Through a Divorce the Right Way
http://www.post-gazette.com/healthscience/20001219hdivorce3.asp
Managing Your Divorce - A Guide for Battered Women
http://www.ncjfcj.org/dept/fvd/publications/main.cfm?Action=PUBGET&Filename=managing_divorce.pdfLegal Evil People in Divorce
http://www.cfli.com/Evil.html 
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