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From: XtraMSN Nicknameneedmywings  (Original Message)Sent: 8/09/2008 6:08 a.m.

Hi

I realize this is not a religous board...

But for those that are - I ask for prayers.

My dad is undergoing surgery - possibly two this week. 

Doctors are giving him a 80 - 90% chance of NOT making it off the table. 

He underwent thorough pre-op testing these past two weeks - & is not well. 

He is found to have a heart defect along with several other complicating factors.  He is 71 years old.  Recently became diabetic, is alcoholic, inactive etc.  He has a bowel obstruction, and gallstones. 

He's my dad - has been a @#$ alot of my life. But I love him very much. I request prayers for him & our family.

Thank you for your time & support

NMW



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From: XtraMSN NicknameMaria---JSent: 8/09/2008 7:08 a.m.
Dear Needmywings,
 
Sorry to hear about your dad.  I will pray for him and your family.  I feel more for what I can imagine you've had to endure growing up.  But I respect your love for your dad and so you have my prayers.
 
 
 
Love,
Maria---J

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From: XtraMSN NicknamePassingStrangeSent: 8/09/2008 7:49 a.m.
needmywings,

Thank you for letting us know. You, your dad + your family have my prayers,

with love,
PassingStrange


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From: XtraMSN NicknameneedmywingsSent: 9/09/2008 6:18 a.m.
Dear Maria,
 
Thank you ! I hope my dad makes it - he doesn't believe in God or anything.
Growing-up FOO very tumultuos. (excuse my lack of sp)
I was NC with him for ten yrs. 
 (I turned 34 this yr. - not quite ready to lose another person.)
 
Also, a long overdue Huge teary heart-felt thank you for writing the poem
in response to my fiance's passing. 
(I could feel... where he was after he passed.  I hope we all make it there !)
 
your very sweet & caring.
 
 
Dear PS
 
Thank you.  Sincerely I respect & value your input here.
Thee is so much change everywhere  - I am still in bed at home on disability.
 insurance has run out.  If I don't get into a program - I'd have to go to work with my N boss. Not up for that, physically or psychologicaly. - But I want to be at hosp. when he has surgery (s)....
 
I did hesitate posting - there is so much change everywhere. 
But there is still love here - & that is good - lord knows we all need some.
 
Hugs,
NMW
 
 
 
 
 
 

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From: XtraMSN Nicknamecalgal121Sent: 9/09/2008 4:27 p.m.
I will pray for him. God Bless

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From: XtraMSN NicknamefinallygetbetterSent: 9/09/2008 4:49 p.m.
My prayers are with you hon.  Hugs, FGB

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From: XtraMSN NicknameneedmywingsSent: 11/09/2008 9:59 p.m.
Hey ,
 
I just wanted to update you guys on my dad.  He had his first surgery today.  It went well from what my brother told me.  When he recovers from this one - he should have the major surgery next week sometime.  I appreciate your continued prayers and support.
 
God bless
Love
 
NMW

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From: XtraMSN NicknameneedmywingsSent: 11/09/2008 11:14 p.m.
Dear Aegiss1
 
I am so sorry your dad is sick too
I will pray for him & you, your family.
 
Thank you for your prayers & adding my dad too your congregations prayer list.
Many hugs, much love
God bless you!
NMW

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From: XtraMSN Nicknamelovespell_DSent: 19/09/2008 4:11 p.m.
Hi Needmywings
 
I just saw this post....did your dad have the surgery?
 
Is he ok? I hope he is doing fine.
 
I will also say a prayer for him.

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From: XtraMSN NicknameneedmywingsSent: 7/10/2008 6:28 p.m.
Hey,

Just wanted to let you know my dad is ok.

He's decided to not have the second surgery - for now.
I guess I can't blame him w/ the odds. He says it's cause of all the pre-op tests he has to do again - and money - but I don't think so.

Anyway he needs the sx - & defenitely follow up post-op - but won't.

I have to trust that things will happen as they should. I've been worring my myself crazy over him & the fam.
I'll let you all know if things change.

I sincerely appreciate ypu care & support in this.

Hugs
NMW

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From: XtraMSN NicknameneedmywingsSent: 18/10/2008 11:29 a.m.
Hey Plum,
 
Thank you very much.  I sincerely appreciate your prayers & care. 
My dad's old but mean.
 
I think his mean-ness is keeping him going .
 
Take care
NMW

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