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From: XtraMSN NicknamePalmBchGuy0  (Original Message)Sent: 5/11/2008 10:24 p.m.
I was/am married to a npd woman for 4 years. She destroyed my self image and self confidence. She left 4 months ago...and I still miss her....or I miss someone being with me. As time goes by, It does become easier and I think of her less often. I am dating now, but still have a partial wall.
As I am a social person, I need companionship. It gets lonely out here alone.

PBG


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From: XtraMSN Nicknamegoingnorth2Sent: 5/11/2008 11:08 p.m.
Hi Palm Beach, 
 
Yes, you are right, PalmBeach:  Men need help also. 
 
After my ex-husband (not an n) and I divorced, he hooked up with "L."  
 
All I can say is, thank goodness he finally left her. 
 
I swear!  And I'm not joking:  You could walk up to that woman and say, "I feel horrible.  My grandmother was just hit by a pick up truck and it dragged her half a mile before the driver knew what was happening." 
 
Within 2 minutes, that woman would turn the conversation around to a similar thing that happened to -- guess who.  ??  HER!!!!! 
 
I was so much happier when my ex-husband left her.  Not because I was jealous of their relationship.  I thought she was the most selfish person I'd ever met.  NOBODY deserves that.  NOBODY! 
 
It's okay to lower the wall.  Just be super careful.  Keep coming here to learn.  Read the materials listed on the left. 
 
Have a nice evening. 
 
GN 
 
 

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From: XtraMSN NicknameAcesAceSent: 7/11/2008 3:20 a.m.
Palm Beach Guy,

So glad you are here! It is tough to get over them for what ever reason. I think it's the predictability of it all. I've tried dating a couple of times and it just didn't work out. It seems that discernment is really strong after being with an N whether male or female. I do hope you stick around and heal.

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