Hi Palm Beach, 

 

Yes, you are right, PalmBeach:  Men need help also. 

 

After my ex-husband (not an n) and I divorced, he hooked up with "L."  

 

All I can say is, thank goodness he finally left her. 

 

I swear!  And I'm not joking:  You could walk up to that woman and say, "I feel horrible.  My grandmother was just hit by a pick up truck and it dragged her half a mile before the driver knew what was happening." 

 

Within 2 minutes, that woman would turn the conversation around to a similar thing that happened to -- guess who.  ??  HER!!!!! 

 

I was so much happier when my ex-husband left her.  Not because I was jealous of their relationship.  I thought she was the most selfish person I'd ever met.  NOBODY deserves that.  NOBODY! 

 

It's okay to lower the wall.  Just be super careful.  Keep coming here to learn.  Read the materials listed on the left. 

 

Have a nice evening. 

 

GN