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From: XtraMSN Nicknamestepphanie5  (Original Message)Sent: 23/11/2008 8:46 p.m.
I can't believe it.....after 4 years he leaves me a voicemail message sounding very depressed and asking me to be his friend!!
 
They  always come back don't they...?!
 
Only a few weeks ago he was bragging to a friend of mine that he had 4 women on the go.....guess they all found out about each other....eh! LOL
 
This time I think I have enough distance and perspective to carry on NC.
He has my cell phone number because of my work but I changed my home number a long time ago and I will be careful not to answer any   "number withheld" calls...
 
A part of me still wants to get in touch,the drama surrounding his life was so colorful and exciting  but I'll leave it for the 4 women.  I have been so lonely ever since he left...we were engaged and he ran back to an x....and then another x.....
 
I can see the rollarcoster only stops when the women say " enough" he is too weak to ever end the games,besides he will never end them when he has so much NS to gain.
Please help me to stay away.X


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From: XtraMSN NicknameAlamobelle3Sent: 23/11/2008 9:11 p.m.

Good for you - Yes CHOOSE YOU

The drama carries a heavy price tag let someone else pick up that tab .




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From: XtraMSN Nicknamestepphanie5Sent: 23/11/2008 9:48 p.m.
Thanks for your support....yes the cost was HUGE to me....my mental health...thanks for the reminder.
X

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From: XtraMSN Nicknamechatte775Sent: 24/11/2008 11:30 p.m.
Four years, and now he wants to be your friend? Don't fall for it. Find drama in eating a high-calorie dessert and all the emotional turmoil that follows. :)

"Friends don't let friends date narcissists."

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