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From: XtraMSN NicknameBicyleGirl  (Original Message)Sent: 24/11/2008 6:00 a.m.
It's been 7 months NC with the ex-N. She is the devil, people, really and truly. She literally tried to destroy me, my career, and my life. Did everything in her power.
 
And stupid me, I am feeling 'guilty' for having NO intention of emailing her tomorrow with a 'happy birthday' wish. God, what a sucker I am, to have even a second's worth of guilt over someone so awful. But then, that's why I was such a perfect victim--way too nice, emphatic, always putting her first, feeling bad for her.
 
Ugh, tomorow is going to be really hard and sad for me. It will be the definitive 'end' of things--she will know it, and so will I. It's necessary and good, but still, it feels so odd not to be telling her happy birthday.


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From: backfiremanSent: 24/11/2008 5:15 p.m.
My n was the devil and you had her twin, pure evil. Dont email the monster and feel no guilt. confusion is her weapon. forget the beast!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It will be the biggest test of your life.good luck.

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From: XtraMSN NicknameBicyleGirlSent: 24/11/2008 5:24 p.m.
thanks for this, backfireman.
 
i know, she is the devil, deserves nothing from me. and it is the biggest test of my life--7 months NC, and today is the only day I would have weakened. But guess what? I'm not going to. Not a chance. I'm FINALLY FINALLY DONE.
 
I'm sure you know how it feels.
 
take care

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From: XtraMSN Nicknamechatte775Sent: 24/11/2008 7:43 p.m.
Good girl! Stay NC. Then you really will have something to celebrate, and not the devil's birthday..why would you want to celebrate that Satan himself spawned another one? haha! Ok, that was mean. Sorry. You are not a bad person for staying away. But I get it. I would be playing head games with myself, thinking I should use this once-a-year opportunity to glean a glimmer of hope. NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!

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