Hiya Frog - I wasn't going to jump into the original thread, because, like you, I KNOW my mouth is the source of my trouble - hence haven 't TOLD myguys' STBXNW what I REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAALLLY think about her.

 

I was talking with a friend who happens to be Church of Christ - she was going on and on about how I should go to THEIR church - I said, "no organized religions for me, thank you though" - I said I USED to go Baptist and Assembly of God - my churches and their leaders LET ME DOWN. If GOD allows it to happen, I want NO PART OF "church" - tyvm!

 

I also mentioned to this friend - who despises myguy's STBXNW with more passion than "I" do: I said, "I have 'killed her' so many times and in SOOOOoooo many ways within my own mind and heart - I mean I actually have to start getting REALLLLLLY creative anymore...the mundane don't cut it!" - then we both laughed. My point being, without getting all religious about it - I learned that as one thinks in their heart, then the VIRTUE AND THE 'SIN' of those thoughts is already known, has already "stained." I also told my friend that IF 'imagination' without actually ACTING on said "violent retaliation" IS cause for being sent to hell, then I am already on my way.

 

I believe in this board and the "venting to remian sane" aspect of it as well as ALL the information we have, and do exchange here - this place IS an OASIS of SANITY.

 

They say it takes all kinds to make the world go 'round - and WHILE I truly long for the day when every person loves their neighbor and isn't greedy, psycho, proud, envious, lustful, slothful, wrathful, etc - [ I appreciated the post about Galveston GREATLY - amen!!! ] - then all one person can DO IN A DAY, is all ANY person can do in a day.

 

Keep em (police, daycares, schools, etc) in your corner, especially where the youngun's are concerned - if you HAVE an order - make sure it's ENFORCED everytime it gets violated by one of those N's - every time, inflict as much POLICE on em as you HAVE to - because, they will not STOP in trying to get THEIR OWN WAY, when we ALL KNOW, it's merely a show out of them crating an opportunity for "THEM TO WIN and YOU TO LOSE!"

 

That's the N's whole game, and they care not about our children...it's all about winning. Most of em don't have the first clue as to how a person goes about raising loving and caring human BEINGS - because THEIR whole gig is caught up in "human HAVING." Having their way, having it "over on someone," having it all until their 'conquest is bled dry and made totally crazy' - well, it isn't going to happen here.

 

I guess I'm just chattering on - but I've read all the responses here - I agree - we need a place to "work things out for our selves" - and even if a post isn't popular, it's still how you feel

and it's what you need to say - so ROCK IT!

 

 

~BMOGS~

Hey PlumFrog--

Oh! Brother! He is like the Energizer Bunny...He just keeps going and going...Doesn't he? Oh! OH! Good One! He is praying for you? For your Blackheart? I just wanted to bust out laughing. Acting like the Martyr now, is he? Well, it just shows, he thinks nothing else has worked.

I don't know what it was that you said in this post but it reminded me again of you "just floating along in your little innertube and he just grabs a hold of you and pulls you right under" and I started laughing again! It is so absurd...what else can you do, sometimes. I am sorry PlumFrog. I sure hope he runs out of steam soon!

Hugs,

Annie

LOL BMoG! "so ROCK IT!"

p.p.s.

I sincerely apologize for having tried to send mine to TEXAS! =)

 

and plumfrog,

i sure wish I knew how to get them away from us, yours is the worst i've even ever heard of! HUGS.. remember, you ARE winning. thats why he has amped up his bs.

~aegiss

 

He used to say to me as he was in the process of abandoning my son and i for the better part of 8 years... "Can't you just keep taking that medicine, things are fine when you do!" I had had to take celexa for extreme post-partum (caused by him and his psycho family) and it 'mellowed' me out. He wanted me to drug myself up and keep tolerating his behavior. I refused. He left because of my 'behaviour". In reality, he had left because my son was diagnosed with a congenital heart defect and he didn't want to deal with a son who wasn't perfect. His words. Now my life is going good and he just made the mistake of thinking I was the same person I was 8 years ago and tried to n-tapdance all over my son and my right to be treated decently and I walked. Still have to do the visits...but can't I have a little fun with em??? =)

Plum,

 

re the washrags: soaking them in Clorox water, even diluted, doesn't sound like it falls under a daycare's Best Practices!

 

Regardless of N's complaints, why don't you keep a box of diaper wipes at daycare and ask that they wipe the kiddo down with those instead of a washrag? Tell them he has sensitive skin or whatever.. but that's a lot of chemicals for anyone, especially a 2-yo!

 

And that'll be two birds w/ one stone.. the little monkey will smell like a fresh diaper wipe instead of a kitchen sink (or fresh-scrubbed toilet, lol, i dunno w/ the Clorox) so N won't complain, AND he won't be swimming in chemicals!