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Well so far my dad has been the mediator when it comes to visits with me and N's son and twice now N has attacked my dad over the phone about extending his visit times. N is visiting our son today, our lil guy is sick sick sick, my dad is sicker than a dog as well. Seeing as how he already set the visit up well in advance I decided to let our son go anways. Well my boy fell asleep at the exact same time my dad was suppose to drop him off at the meeting place so my dad txt msged N and told him to hold off about an hour. N phoned my dad and exploded on him. I am defnitely going to bring this up to my lawyer but what the heck can I do in the mean time? His abuse is now directed towards my dad and my dad is the one doing HIM the favour!! |
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Thanks for the advice Dolly, I think a professional mediator would be more than reasonable!! My poor dad is only doing what he thinks is right...letting his grandson see his dad. And he gets barked at for daring to put his grandson first...it just pisses me off! But, it's also a reminder of why I left the N in the first place, he definitely can't hide his true a-hole colours for very long before he explodes. |
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| | From:  femfree | Sent: 14/10/2008 9:11 p.m. |
Hi soft. Have your dad tell the N that the N will need to email dad about any concerns. Naturally the N will 'attack' dad via the phone. The N cannot extend visit times without rewriting the custody agreement. What would be the problem with dad picking up the sleeping child - I'm sure this happens all the time. Don't give the N ANYTHING to get in a fuss about. The visit times are, I presume, int he custody agreemnt - both of you need to adhere to that agreement. And your dad too). |
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