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| | From: nemo10 (Original Message) | Sent: 18/11/2008 12:04 a.m. |
I am stuck in a very rough situation right now and need some advice from anyone out there. I have a restraining order on my sons father for 2 years based on verbal, emotional, and physical abuse (domestic violence restraining order). The father got the restraining order modified so he can have supervised visitations. The father wants nothing to do with my son and was even going to sign off all his rights but his mother is forcing him to be in my sons life, so now he is fighting me on everything. This guy when he was involved saw my son only 2 times the 1st 7 months of his life and the 3 times he was so verbally and emotionally abusive to both my son and I that my son was fearful of all men. Now my poor child is having to go thru supervised visit with a professional monitor. The visits are so traumitized from the visits that now he has seperation anxiety and stranger anxiety. The day care has talked to me on 2 seperate occasions about the concerns they have for my son. I am on my 2nd attorney and am trying to fight with all my might for full physical and legal custody of my son. The father is a PIMP for a living and he does not want anything to do with my son. My attorney does not feel that we have enough evidence to present to the court thta he is a PIMP even though we have a girl that worked for him that is going to testify along with all these documents proving their realtionship of pimp/prostitute. My attorney is still saying we don't have enough evidence and they said even a PIMP can be a father. The father is claiming he is a student and has no income but he lives the life of luxury and I can also prove that. My attorney is not believing in me nor are they presenting my concerns in court for ex: violation of retraining order and not upholding court orders. My last hearing last week my attorneys did nothing to fight for what I wanted and they wanted to come to an agreement outside of court because it was just a review hearing. My attorneys said that I had to pay for half of supervised visits now and he still gets supervised visits. I don't get who my attorneys are working for, when I am paying the big money. The father does not even have an attorney, his attorney dropped him because of all the lies and the violation of restraining order. I asked my attorneys following court why none of my concerns were being presented in court. The head attorney came back at me and said that I am out of line, too emotional, and usually they would let clients go like me. NOW I don't know what to do? Do I look for another attorney where I Feel they are going to fight for the rights of me and my son or do I stick with the ones I have because they are right. If I look for another attorney is that going to look bad on me that it would be my 3rd attorney. I am frustrated, SCARED, and lost. Can anyone please help me? Thank you |
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| | From: nemo10 | Sent: 18/11/2008 3:36 p.m. |
Thank you...I will look into having this done! I know that he use to do E back when he was in college way before I knew him, but I am not sure if he is still using. Thank you for your response! |
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| | From: nemo10 | Sent: 21/11/2008 3:53 p.m. |
Yes I can but will that look bad to the courts that it would be my 3rd attorney |
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