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| | | From: N magnetgirl (Original Message) | Sent: 16/11/2008 12:45 a.m. |
Well, he got me. He took all my jobs again today I guess as bid to get me to quit.. and well I quit. I guess it also could be because he needs $ for drugs since his acess to any money is frozen by his family. The mother called me this morning and told me it wouldnt happen again and that i would be doing the contract and then she called me at 5pm and told me he was doing my job again. I just simply said , fine i quit... and that was that. I was so livid that I planned his funeral. I went in and threw my stuff at him and then left. He knows im in a financial bind right now, but i guess his xg doesnt want me working there, so hey more power to her... in time she will be here too. His parent hate her they think shes a ho who steals his $. I hope she soaks him dry... its just a mater of time before hes flat broke and self destructed. Does that make me a bad person because i cant wait for that day to come?
I wish him misery, i have no detached compassion for this evil satanic piece of trash. I feel sad for his parents, he only took my jobs so that he could get me to quit, and I give it 2 days and he will leave them stranded with nobody to do the job. My heart goes out to all of you who have a narcissistic child. I'll bet its even worse than having an N parent. Anyway, Im ok, Im very worried about how Im going to survive financially, but hey, my suffering is going to be on N's karma plate so If i starve.. one day it will be his future to know what its like. Anyway I guess this is gods will. He knows what i want and need and im going to trust the path that he sends me on. Goodbye bordercist, cracknut, psychopath.. you are the best lesson I have ever had and one day, all my growth and hapiness, will all be because of your wikked, vindictive, evil and creul mistreatment.
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| | From:  femfree | Sent: 16/11/2008 1:10 a.m. |
Hi Nmagnetgirl. It was a set up sweetie. You know too much. |
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| Really, you think so? See the way I'm seeing it is that the mother is his supply and he cons her. She really was nice to me, and so was the father, she even told me this morning that she wished he and i were together. Shes cried to me so many times. Apparently last night N had some mental attack and was throwing things and banging the cash registers and freaking out . Apparently his father banned him from the place.My gut is telling me it is because he needed drug money but i could be wrong. I think he was taking my contracts because he had no other way to get money. N threatens the mother with suicide and he controls her with that. At one point she was giving him thousands of dollars for drugs because he would threaten suicide. I see the mother as being an enabler for him and all he has to do is freak out and she gives in because she is scared he will kill himself. It was her who convinced me to come back in the first place after i left the first time. The parents really were nice to me, I just think he has them by the balls thats all. I stopped by the fathers work and told him I quit and what happened and he freaked out and said he was going over there . I think the mother got manipulated thats all and i feel bad for her because tonight N will get fried and tomorrow she will realise that he manipulated her yet again. I understand though, like i said it must be hard to have a narcissistic suicidal crack addict child. I am not going to hold this against her, its her son and i dont think she quite knows what to do. |
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but also... you could be totally right femme, you could be totally right. Maybe one day god will pass me a message and give me that answer, but for now... I couldnt care less, Im so done and ready for the beginning of the rest of my life.
Off topic, thanks for all Ive learned here... I owe this place a lot. If not for the education I got here, I would still be blindly spinning circles. At least now im spinning them with awareness. One day i wont even be spinning anymore. Its all good.. everything is just as it should be |
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NMagnet, That's too bad about his mother. Too bad about the entire mess. I read in my devotional that we pay the price for sin for a good reason: If we're allowed to do as we please, we will think we're not important. Parents discipline their children to show them that what they do is important, because the child is important. The xnbf I left was permitted to use drugs also. His parents turned a blind eye when he was a teen -- dropping acid, smoking pot, using pills, using cocaine. He said that one time his dad was prepared to throw out a stash of pills of some sort. He told his dad, "Don't you dare! They're worth $XXX!!" His dad allowed him to keep the pills because they had a monetary value. (The xnbf is quite fond of the dollar.) His mother passively aided in his drug use as well. I don't know if his parents' passive assistance in his drug use caused him to believe he was/is unimportant. I don't know if he's covering a deep sense of inferiority with an exaggerated disguise of superiority. Who knows? All I know is: I wasn't put on this earth to sort this problem out and fix it. Neither were you. I'm glad you've removed yourself from the equation. xo GN |
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Dear N_magnetgirl, I am so sorry about your situation. I hope that a new job, a BETTER job, comes your way, immediately. Dealing with N's is such a challenge - until one realizes that all THEY want is, WHAT THEY WANT - nobody else matters. Be glad you're out of it and done with him - I'll be thinking of you, and holding good thoughts for you. ~BMOGS~ |
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