Shalom all,

 

Just like most of the excellent responses on here, I did absolutely GORNISCHT!  (tr:  nothing) and that meant NO contact (NO:  e-mails, picking up the phone, answering the door) 

So the best story got to me about a year after I began my "Zero tolerance for the Zero" policy...apparently, the N went to the police (we lived about 2 hours away) and said that I was being held against my will and could not answer his calls/e-mails/etc.  When that didn't get him the results he wanted, he told the police that I had called him and said I was going to commit suicide (friends, I hadn't spoken to the a$$hole for several months by that point) and a policeman was actually dispatched to my apartment.  I was out with some friends when this happened, but there was a note on my door asking me to please call as a "welfare check."  I called--the officers were very very nice and I explained the situation to them.

Well, the N goes back to his local police station after he still doesn't get any supply from me and makes SUCH an ASS out of himself, he actually gets THROWN out of the police station with the warning that he was never to come back unless he had a legitimate complaint.

Now honestly friends, thrown IN to the police station I've heard of--being thrown OUT was a new one on me.  lololololololololol  ROFLMAO at the memory!

Love,

LadyV