My ex talked of 3 somes, liked girls 20 years younger which made me feel bad. Was involved in secretive sex fantasies. I think for sure he has a sexual addiction. When i told him he was weird - he laughed in kind of a bizarre manner. If you are comfortable with anything goes its ok - but if u think its bizarre and it makes you think twice - I'd keep asking questions. Its still ok to enjoy a healthy sex life and be in a normal realtionship with a guy. I'd ask some questions.