The N I was with told me on our first valentine's day about three women who showed up at his door after work. He said they came there for a threesome. I got mad bust never said a word to the three women until the first D&D. They told me that he invited one of them and the other two went along with her. He had candles and bloody mary's made. They told me that they smoked all his weed and left, but not before he tried to kiss to the one he invited. She ran out and called him a freak. The girls were people I worked with and they were the kind of women who did the threesomes. The funny thing is I'm the one that told him about them. I gave him the bait and he went right to it. Looked me in the eye and never said a word until 5 months later on Valentine's day. What a jerk. He was testing my boundaries. I forgave him, because I didn't want to ruin valentine's day and his son was with his mother over night. It was the first time that we had a weekend alone and I didn't want to ruin it. I realize now he wanted to start a fight so that he could be free of me, too.
It's funny how after your away for a while you see things so much clearer and you realize the lies and manipulations were even more than you ever knew. How you made excuses and lived in denial. My eyes are wide open and I can't make excuses anymore. He is what he is and he always will be. |
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