| Validation from all of the experts on this forum...sad we are so many.  Wonderful we are so many!  I have been reading ferociously on this site for some time now.  Wasn't going to speak up, but it niggled at me enough that I went ahead and posted a long list of what I've endured for the last 4 years...earlier today.  I would appreciate a comment or two.  I suppose it's pathetic that I am looking for validation, when it's right there - I wrote it!!  Maybe a last hurrah before I let myself let go?  I appreciate this site and all of your words of wisdom.  Many of you have endured so much, I feel mine pales in comparison. Then I say "No, you experience is as valid as the next."   The fog is lifting. |