I think they get off on the excitement and drama it causes when they have to keep covering up their lies. If there wasn't any drama, he would always create some by doing something to hurt me and then lie until I figured out the truth. In any case there was always drama. He could never be happy when things were calm. He would always go see OW when things got to calm. Then eventually he would set it up where I would find him there. I don't know why I took it for so long. Even one time, was one time to many. I could have been free a whole lot sooner if only I had found this site and went NC a whole lot sooner.
Thanks to all of you. It will be 1 year of being away from him with one brief N dip that gave me a chance to get some closer. Something that most of us don't get. I got to call him to his face the Devil amongst some other things. He finally got it he has pretty much left me alone except for one incident. He knows that I am and always will be unavailable to him. I am stronger now then ever and the love I had for him is gone. For you people who new at this it does get easier and better. Stay NC and block all avenues of contact.
YouMail.com is a great way to channel unwanted voice mails. You can choose a nasty personalized message and then it hangs up. My message to the N was something that said GO TO HELL at the end. I thought it was very fitting since he is the programed the Devil on my phone. It plays the message then hangs up so no voice mails are left. Makes life a lot easier. He only called me twice and he has never called me again. He is blocked on my email accounts too. NC is the only way to get way from these idiots. |
Prev Message
