Thank you What. You are most kind. I wrote the post "The list goes on." I am all of one silly week NC - actually quite a feat in this small town - and plan to ride it out as long as he stays away. Certainly not going to contact him myself!!! Feeling overall ok...a bit overwhelmed and .. empty when I wake up in the morning. But I do my exercises to start the day off on a positive note, and I am trying to do things for me me me. Had a spa treatment this weekend, then a big lunch, time with girlfriends...all off the radar screen of his usual haunts. I'm sad. I am not angry. Just sad. But I know I have finally reached my limit and will no longer subject myself to his indifference. |