This is not a normal person with empathy, remorse, love, care, etc.
Normal forgiveness does not apply. It's not as if he is going to learn anything from it.
You walk away with your head held high and you never forget, never make the same mistakes.
Instead of forgiving, you channel those energies into you, fixing the holes in your boundaries that let his poison take over your mind and your soul.
In other words, you forgive yourself. And you make yourself healthier. |