*** God Mentioned ***
Lyric:
Forgiveness is a choice, not a feeling. Do it for yourself, not them. You can't help them anyway, you can only help yourself.
Unforgiveness leads to bitterness - - - and bitterness makes for a very unhappy person. Bitterness is also the cause of many cancers, headaches and premature aging. Don't allow them this type of control over your life.
Do what you must to resolve the events of your past but in all you do, forgive. If you should start to think about the N, stop yourself and say outloud, NO! I choose to forgive.
Now, you can do all this on your own but it's much easier with God's help and God's grace. Without it, I don't know how I would have done it.
Hope this helps.
Fran