Hi Moving...

 

You write...

I have to be selfish and not worry about the future women he will do this to

 

Churches and other such organizaton are drawing cards for Ns and no, you cannot save the world from these predators.  In fact, there are so many lonely dependent women out there that Ns have little difficulty finding new targets.  save yourself - get out as you indicate.

 

I don't know your religion, but I do know that the Christian Holy Bible gives us all the tools we need to recognize and defeat these people on an individual basis.

 

 

What we need to do is to learn to spot these creatures and don't make it your personal crusade to try to warn others. In fact, even the most mediocre Ns will already have pre-empted you by going around telling people that you are making false statements and lies about him. So, when in fact you do try to warn them, all you will be doing is validating them.  It's the cruelest kind of thing isn't it?

 

Learn as much as you can as fast as you can and protect yourself financially and emotionally.

 

If you search the google thingy you'll find a lot of information on predators in cults and religions.

 

It hasn't stopped me from being in fact a strong Christian, but I can spot a cruising N much better, and, they can spot me too.

 

Don't remain in the muck of NPD, get out and live a life free of them knowing they lurk out there. Don't try to save the world. Give yourself permission to walk away.

 

femfree

 

Our Father, which art in heaven,
Hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come.
Thy will be done in earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive them that trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation, But deliver us from evil.
For thine is the Kingdom, the power, and the glory,
For ever and ever. Amen.