I just want to say thank you to all of you fine ladies , to the managers and to the creators of this board..

 

I found it by accident when I was posting on a divorce related board, trying to figure out what was wrong in my marriage, and my life, and with me that my husband would treat me so badly.. It all became so clear, as I was directed to this site and learned about what had become my life for the past 20 years..I don't think I would have had the strength and certainly not the knowledge to leave my husband and remain NC, had it not been for this site..

 

I know that others have also been give the gift of freedom and a new and wonderful life..I am still going through a brutal divorce. But I had been wisely advised what to expect, right down to the hoovering, smear campaigns and more hoovering.. My motto has been "NC, no matter what.." and it has been the best defense and the key to moving on ..

 

Love to all of you here on the board, and to those who were inspirational to me.. Alot of tears shed and friendships were formed here ..

 

God bless.  PJ