Hi,!

 

Thank you for postinh your reply. Since posting this question, I have conducted my personal research, and learned that obsession can be a factor demonstrated  by a narcissist.

I believe that the first indicator, which is very pravalent in a NonNarcissitic person, (is that a actual word?) is idolization.

I think it's fair to say that we all have someone/s we idolize. But, this idolization moves to obsession when interacting with a person of a low self-image.

I wish you the best in terms of handling your steppdaughter!

Akosha,   

hi!

i really need some advise my sister is the n and i never seen it because she was my baby and i thought she idolized me but i just found out in may it was obsession and my question is i have broke all ties with her, will she retaliate and hurt me or someone in my family or like it seems she does not care? it hurts so bad because i love her so much but i can never forgive her betrayal. why did i not see the signs?