My NM is very crass. She's so easily led by advertisers, or others.
I know there is a biblical phrase about pearls being cast before swine, which resonates much with my NM.
I realise that she is just hollow. I realise that I have never been appreciated and never ever could be. A wonderful gift that has just been totally missed.
Hand-in-hand with the crassness is the nastiness, naturally enough, and with lies, the cheating.
I find it amazing that aperson can 'dodge' through life, like a kid who was able to channel all their ability into dodging lessons and learning.