I posted here about 6 months ago, asking for advice about my N father. I've successfully NC'd him, since i moved away 5smonths ago, and other then the occasional random text or email i recieve, he's out of my life,and i'm so much happier for it :)

 

The only problem Ihave is that he still haunts me. It was easy enough to NC when i got the ball rolling, combined with moving 500 miles away (because of my husbands job -not because of him). But i've found it significantly more difficult to get him out of my head -of course this isn't feeding him, so isn't the end of the world, but any tips on how to minimise this interference...

 

And as an update from my last post, I've given birth to a beautiful, bouncing baby boy, Jared :)