That makes perfect sense to me. When i tried to get the lid off things got so much worse. Once i actually went to a birthday party for his mother and NOBODY spoke to me except one of his neices. I left there in tears and he told me that is how his family had "always treated the women he dated" and i should not worry about it. It was the most bizaare thing i have even dealt with. My family is so loving and caring and accepting of all people, so this was a huge blow to me. It was one of the straws that broke the camel's back for me. He conforted me all the way home and then later that night got angry and called me every name in the book and told me he had told his family that I was a whore and slept with multiple men once when he was mad at me. NO WONDER i sat by myself.. Twisted crazy man!!