Hi Lotty. Your message is brilliant and your understanding of these Ns and Ps is rivetingly accurate.
Like a light bulb with a short circuit that keeps flickering, it can't stop, it is unable to function because of it's short circuit our Ns are much the same. It is deeply ingrained and unable to stop either.
I'll never figure out why they would cause so much damage in life - many end up dismal failure - not all - many appear to succeed in life trampling others, but these Ns overlook the damage they do.
It's a blessing that we sit back, when our wounds are healed, our recovery done that we wonder why they would spend so much time in unproductive pursuit of their impulse and ego driven behaviour.
And, if the modern decadent society provides the camouflage for them, then modern decandent society is adript not knowing when to say No.
A terrible thing I think. This is also a tragedy that really bothers me.
A member recently sent me this interesting quote by Max Lucado
Let any rifraff knock on your door, and we throw it open. Anger shows up, and we let him in. Revenge needs a place to stay, so we have him pull up a chair. Pity wants a party, so we show him the kitchen. Lust rings the bell, and we change the sheets on the bed. Don't we know how to say no?