O.K., I had a destructive N mother, who fits every one of the criteria for NPD. She beat us every day of our lives, often unconscious, until I was about 10. She stopped because my last brother was born with birth defects, and she lived in another State with him for his medical help. She did terrible emotional abuse to us too.

For us, it was like living in a concentration camp with no escape and daily torture.

 

She called me the other day, and in a conversation said, "Your brother told me I spanked him". In a very oily voice she added, "I never did that to you did I?".

 

I mean, could she really not know or remember all the hundreds of horrible beatings she gave to us.

 

It really made me sick.

 

I simply said, "I have to go now, talk to you later".

 

I keep the contact down to a minimum with her, only to have contact with my father.

 

Has anyone else experienced this with a n mother or father?

 

Thanks!

Had Enough