Hi themom - we have information for you 
   
 So, your son has a cell phone ????
  
 Whose idea was that? sheesh!!
  
 As you are trying to manage this child on your own, then I recommend you get some help from your local menal health association.
  
 I don't see NPD in him - just usual teenager stuff and, an enabling mother.
  
 At the age of 12 he knows how to take a shower.