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From: XtraMSN Nicknamegoingnorth2  (Original Message)Sent: 28/10/2008 1:55 a.m.
"Hey Bonita!  (That means pretty.)  I miss you and the kids." 
 
The "kids" are the cats. 
 
I think the hot weather down in Sarasota is coming to a close. 
 
And The P*ssy Patrol is about to slow down on the beach for a few months.  
 
Look out, girls!  He's going to be spending even more time at the gym.  So if you're working out in Sarasota, be real careful about who you're talking to.  Be especially of a man who announces himself as a Christian and offers to "help" you with work-out tips he's learned over the years. 
 
He will buy you the first meal, but if you take him up on it, you are going to pay, and pay, and pay, and pay. 
 
He misses me.  LOL!!!!! 
 
Christmas is coming.  And the only folks he's got there are his AA "family" and co-workers.  SURE he misses me. 
 
The important thing is:  I don't miss HIM.  Isn't that nice? 
 
Gloria
 
 


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From: XtraMSN Nicknamegoingnorth2Sent: 28/10/2008 1:56 a.m.
be especially careful of a man . . .
 
I left a word out. 

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From: XtraMSN Nicknamebumpy_rider2Sent: 28/10/2008 2:18 a.m.
That's the nicest thing I've heard all day!

(Have you stopped throwing up yet?)

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From: XtraMSN Nicknamegoingnorth2Sent: 28/10/2008 2:23 a.m.
No, Bumpy.  I didn't get to the throwing up part yet.  Maybe when I'm done laughing. 
 
 
Gloria

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From: XtraMSN NicknameTrudy185Sent: 28/10/2008 5:37 a.m.
That's so funny Gloria, I didn't even notice the word careful was missing. I supplied it in my head.

Kind of like what I did with things that were "missing" in the N's overall behavior and demeanor. I seriously thought, as I get to know him better, those gaps will fill in. Or else I filled it in for him.

I'm learning!!

(((huggggs)))

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From: XtraMSN NicknameatemporarynameSent: 28/10/2008 6:12 a.m.
GoingNorth,
Hey, I just wanted to tell you I think it's sooo cool you're able to laugh like that when you got that email. About an hour ago I got a call from my Xn. (Before folks holler, he calls some nights to talk to my son and I speak to him about visit arrangements and listen to my son talk with him also, via speakerphone). He misses us, too. @@ (rolling eyes)...
I'm not gullible. I don't buy it. Too bad...etc.. But I sure don't feel like laughing. Sometimes I laugh in a disgusted, ironic way about him and what he has said, so maybe I'm getting closer to where your at. I sure can't wait till I do.
When you mentioned Christmas I had bells go off, too. With my Xn when he would show up (occassionally over the past 10 years), well...I never saw to much of a pattern. Now I am moreso, many things are going on if he shows up like him lacking NS... You mentioning Christmas though, was like a lightbulb going on. Mine either showed up right before his birthday, but conveniently after mine, which is only three weeks before his...or right before Father's Day. LOL...How on -earth- had I missed that?!?
So thanks for being able to laugh (gives me hope) and double thanks for helping me spot another twisted part of his pattern! I appreciate it!
~atemporaryname

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From: XtraMSN Nicknamegoingnorth2Sent: 28/10/2008 10:56 a.m.
Atemp,
 
I expect that many of them are going to start crawling out from under their rocks now that the Holiday Season is approaching. 
 
Let's be ready for them. 
 
Gloria
 
(that's not a temporary name and I don't care who knows I'm at this site)  

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From: XtraMSN NicknamewolfieshollerSent: 29/10/2008 2:34 p.m.
Getting ready...and now will be singing "If I Had A Hammer"
all day.....


wolfies

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From: XtraMSN Nicknamegoingnorth2Sent: 29/10/2008 3:53 p.m.
LOL Wolfies. 
 
I DO have a hammer. 
 
And if I hit him in the head with it, I'd be in the market for a new hammer. 
 
 
 
Gloria
 
 

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