I posted on new board about this. I signed up as whatincriminy's at to preserve that nic for the other awesome whatinthehelljusthappened.........

 

Ok, so I had an awesome week with NC. Accepted no phone calls, stuck to boundaries. I felt so much better.

 

Well, n called Friday, some on Sat, and a bunch today. We shopped. I felt bad for depriving DD of a phone call from Dad.

 

So, I got blown up, berated, nasty texts.......then I get one that says hey, are you alive? I don't respond. Then xn says....I just need to know if I'm picking DD up in the morning. (Duh, that was the plan all along and he knows I'm too organized to vary from a plan w/o notice).

 

I respond to last text. Yes.

 

He sends a text. Is there any reason that I've not been able to talk to my daughter for four days?

 

I will not respond.

 

Firstly, Fri thru Sun is not four days. Secondly, the arse blows off the babe every weekend for his whatever activities....so, you know, I'm over the guilt.

 

I just love that I've been posting here for a while and everything I see posted comes to light. Awesome to see reality and not his distorted reality anymore. But, like many have said, you begin to predict their next move and how they try to dominate and control and learn to protect yourself.

 

I must say I was stressed for a bit. I had to drop the phone here and go out and shop with DD because I was feeling panicked. This turd had that much control over me..........NO MORE!!!!!!!