Are they boring or are they normal? Normal men don't cause issues, normal men don't always start arguments, or lie or do the weird things N's do.
Normal men can seem boring. What you want is an N. You don't want a normal guy, because if you did, you'd look past the boredom and realize, that you think they're boring because they aren't seriously messed up. They're normal.
I can't for the life of me figure out why ANYONE would want a baby with an N. I am glad my XN is out of my life forever, I have to still deal with an XNH because we have kids, and I wish they had a different father. Having a child with an N, on purpose, is selfish, be cause you know he's sick. It's more than bizarre to mention having sex with your child, it's criminal and disgusting. Only a really sick in the head person would mention ever doing that. He's just bizarre? Are you serious? That's not bizarre, that's plain f*cked up.
I have children and I'm expecting another with my "normal" husband who is the worlds most wonderful stepfather, so maybe that's why this bothers me so much. If you want a child with an N, then have one. But that would be due to your own vanity, and one day when your child is messed up and hurt because of the N, you'll wonder what the hell you were thinking to do that to your child.
Don't have a baby just to have one. They are A LOT of work, a lifetime of work. Have one because you are in a stable loving relationship, or you are satisfied with being alone, and can give that child a good life, N FREE.
Sorry if I'm harsh, but you need to be taken out of the fog. |
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