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General : if your N/xN was your only hope of having a baby would you still have one?
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From: XtraMSN NicknameOzGirl57  in response to Message 16Sent: 19/11/2008 2:21 a.m.
<WBR>How about adopting a poor child who desperately needs a good home.......a home n free?  I agree, why would anyone want to bring a child into life where he/she would be exposed to an n?  That is just plain abusive.  Do you think child abuse is right?  If you had a child and the n were in it's life, that child could very well be taken away from you because you exposed it to abuse from the n.  Think about it.



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From: NARCISSISTIC_PERSONALITY_DISORDER <[email protected]>
To: NARCISSISTIC_PERSONALITY_DISORDER <[email protected]>
Sent: Tue, 18 Nov 2008 7:23 pm
Subject: Re: if your N/xN was your only hope of having a baby would you still have one?

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From: SSull2402
Message 16 in Discussion

Are they boring or are they normal? Normal men don't cause issues, normal men 
don't always start arguments, or lie or do the weird things N's do.

Normal men can seem boring. What you want is an N. You don't want a normal guy, 
because if you did, you'd look past the boredom and realize, that you think 
they're boring because they aren't seriously messed up. They're normal.

I can't for the life of me figure out why ANYONE would want a baby with an N. I 
am glad my XN is out of my life forever, I have to still deal with an XNH 
because we have kids, and I wish they had a different father. Having a child 
with an N, on purpose, is selfish, be cause you know he's sick. It's more than 
bizarre to mention having sex with your child, it's criminal and disgusting. 
Only a really sick in the head person would mention ever doing that. He's just 
bizarre? Are you serious? That's not bizarre, that's plain f*cked up.

I have children and I'm expecting another with my "normal" husband who is the 
worlds most wonderful stepfather, so maybe that's why this bothers me so much. 
If you want a child with an N, then have one. But that would be due to your own 
vanity, and one day when your child is messed up and hurt because of the N, 
you'll wonder what the hell you were thinking to do that to your child.

Don't have a baby just to have one. They are A LOT of work, a lifetime of work. 
Have one because you are in a stable loving relationship, or you are satisfied 
with being alone, and can give that child a good life, N FREE.

Sorry if I'm harsh, but you need to be taken out of the fog.

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