Here's my list. And I question if he's an N???
He called me a whore.
He called me a stupid bitch.
He ignores me when I ask questions.
He lied about OW1.
He lied about OW2.
Still doesn't get OW2's name straight.
He lied about who called him one day - was a female, said male.
He doesn't like my friends.
He doesn't like my apartment.
He doesn´t like my style of living.
He doesn´t like my cats.
He doesn´t like how I dress.
He doesn´t like how I eat.
He doesn´t like what I eat.
Doesn´t like when I wear makeup.
Doesn´t like my hair style.
He doesn´t approve of my qualities that are like mom´s.
He doesn´t appreciate my job.
"You don´t know how to negotiate."
He is rude to waiters.
Doesn´t wait for me to order.
Rude to people in stores.
"I spend a lot of money here" - therefore he can be discourteous.
Wouldn't talk when at dinner with mom.
Fit in street when I tried to touch him.
Gets mad if I don´t answer phone.
Questions constantly who called.
Lied about OW3.
Talks about other women who are interested in him.
"I should have gone with OW4"
Went to beach with another woman without telling me - denies slept together.
Silent treatment when he doesn´t get what he wants.
Thinks I am selfish.
Talks poorly about his family.
Misogynist.
Killed dogs. Oh, the rationalization.
Twisted sense of logic.
Doesn´t follow through on promises.
"I´m not your masseuse" when I asked for backrub when was hurting. How dare I.
2 hours late to my birthday dinner.
Didn´t pick me up Xmas eve night...turned it into my fault...I was stupid.
Never says thank you.
Broke my lamp, watched me clean it up...never replaced, as promised.
Leaves towels on floor in my place.
"Piano would bother me" after he promised me a room for my piano at his ranch.
Speaks negatively of people constantly.
Doesn´t like to read books - thinks they are stupid.
Doesn´t call when says he will.
Talks about same issues over and over.
Creates negative feeling in others about him.
Blank stare when I cried after call from boss "if you were only 20 it would be ok"
"You are my best option."
"You can believe if I find someone better I will be gone."
Doesn´t like how I greet people. Too friendly.
Says it´s my fault that construction workers whistle at me in my walking clothes.
Not respectful of my mother "she's just a mother with all her limitations."
Says we were never friends (after saying our friendship is the most important thing).
Refused to acknowledge my neck problems could come from accident we had on his bike.
Was my fault the valet driver backed into me and knocked me over.
Lazy.
Always tired.
Sits around all day doing nothing.
No hobbies.
Takes up peoples' time with grandiose and illogical prospects...never follows through.
Prejudice against lower class.
Stares at other women.
Talks constantly about how beautiful other women are.
Swears a lot.
Degrades people.
Treats our relationship like a business.
"Consider all the money I spent on you as payment for your services."
Sarcastic when talking about my ethics and doings.
“A piece of meat.�?BR>Compares me to other women.
Purposefully tries to make me jealous �?OW5.
Checks up on me.
Twisted memory.
Projects constantly.
“You destroy the whole thing�?�?because I never say thank you.
Won’t let go of my past mistakes.
Does not try to inspire or support me with my interests.
“I want you here where I can control you.�?BR>“Will treat you like a gentleman when you act like a lady�?–said same thing to OW1.
My gestures of affection are not recognized.
I offer nothing to the relationship.
I make no effort.
Says I am not honorable to my father.
Empathy…devoid.
Self-absorbed.
Hypocrite. Says doesn’t just go to other women, but has. His reasons are ok, mine aren’t.
Upset I ignored his emails afterwards.
“None of your fucking business�?to a suggestion I made �?in front of co-worker, in my office.
Lied about OW - sheesh...lost count.
Proposed marriage to another woman �?denied it. Long fabricated explanation a few days later.
Called friend a “stupid fucking bitch�?for telling me about proposal.
“I deserve to be forgiven.�?BR>Says I was disrespectful talking about OW1001 �?never said a word about her.
“Why can’t you accept I am just different?�?to justify his lies.
Upset I sat in assigned seat on plane when he went up front. I obviously didn’t appreciate the trip.
“You lucky bitch.�? Because he likes me sexually.
“You are such a whore�?�?after sex.
My fault we missed train �?we was late getting back to station.
Plane schedule mishap all my fault �?yelled at me in front of others.
Wrong train mishap all my fault �?yelled at me.
Never saw what I wanted to see while traveling.
Took all pillows to watch TV in comfort.
Read newspaper in fancy restaurant, totally ignoring me.
Champs Elysées and Charles V over and over…obsessed with beautiful people.
Porche �?caprice �?entitlement.
Won’t take off shoes even though I ask him to.
Clothes shopping �?path of destruction.
Childish �?is he 5?
Nonsensical connections of thoughts.
Tit-for-tat.
That I wrote to male friend on trip justifies his bad behavior.
Didn’t say “I love you�?once on trip. Oh yes, because I wrote to friend. Silly me.
I am fake. “I can’t stand it.�?BR>Made fun of me folding my cargo pants. They aren't worth it.
Loved green shirt �?week later hated it.
Didn’t like boat tour �?week later it was the highlight of the trip.
Drama queen �?crying and throwing flowers into street.
Flowers –“I give you these with a lot of love, but also with a lot of hate.�?BR>Announced his love for me in front of friends �?was in state of euphoria.
Sobbed when I went with friend on trip. Got over it in a day.
Cried when said “Why can’t we just erase everything and be even?�?BR>Relationship is negotiation…percentages, arrangements.
Offered me stipend.
Wants me to quit job, and if I insist on working, work for him.
Annoyed that I wanted to thank his for errand he ran. “He works for me.�?BR>Insisted on telling waiters the olive oil was not pure.
Upset I didn’t do his hand wash �?he was too lazy to bring it to me.
Calls foreman at any hour, any day…no respect for personal time. “I pay him well.�?BR>Didn’t see reason to give foreman time off when father died.
Asked if there was something I could do to climax faster. Too much work for him.
Falls asleep right after orgasm. Doesn’t care if I am satisfied.
Ridiculous demands. “Let’s go tomorrow for a month to the beach.�? I give nothing to the relationship when I can't go.
Stalks me.
“You don’t give me what I need.�?BR>“I wonder if you will ever give me what I need.�?BR>“You’re still my best option �?isn’t that nice?�?BR>Lied to his mother about trip departure.
“Don’t ever talk to me again about my sister.�?BR>“I can’t stand my mother.�?BR>Pays mother Christmas bonus.
Ragingly upset when I didn’t answer phone when on date with another.
Thinks I should be more like certain friends of mine.
Wants life like a couple we know. Uh huh.
Can’t understand why I like my life, why I reject his.
Says I should have parties at my house to pay back invites. (I live in tiny apartment - room for 2).
Never brings wine or snack to parties.
Sat away from me part way through movie. Fell asleep.
Never asks how I am.
Repeats something I said a few days later, as his own thought.
“You want everything to be pink.�?BR>Mimics me. Sarcastic.
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