chosen,

Happy B-day - you are so young still and deep down I hope you remember that. I gave 10 years to a som nar and 4 years to a cel nar - the second one set out to destroy me because he will never be a decent person....He told me that he left women on important days like b-days and valentine's day so they never forget them - they are sick. I will mine had left me - unfortunately for me he was also a borderline and trapped me in pity and guilt so I would not leave him. Take care - you have so much life ahead - I am almost 52 and having a great life in NC. Peace,