You both make so much sense. He tells his family things about the women he dates so the family ends up hating them too. Once he told me he had a "strange" relationship with his mother while growing up and that his "dad was jealous" of him and his mom. RED FLAG. What was i thinking? (Ooops sorry, i slipped into my "what the hell is wrong with me mode" for a second.) He was also the only boy with 3 sisters. He was the oldest and they all treat him like the king. RED FLAG #2
When i found out he had served time in prison after we started dating, (stalking, home invasion, and unlawful restratint, but of course it was not his fault, silly me) he had his sister call me to tell me what a great guy he was and that prison thing was just a "fluke". 3 years in prison for spraying ONE of your ex-wives with pepper spray in her face and holding her against her will after breaking into her home is NOT a fluke) he has since been in trouble in Florida and he is now on court supervision for a year and a no contact rule for me thank God. Telephone harrassment and electronic harrassment.
Now that i have talked to people in his town, they confirm that everybody knows he is a liar and half nuts. Why in the world don't people pass that word on BEFORE hand. i sometimes feel like i dated the weird guy that rides the bicycle around town who talks to himself. You know every town has one..What was I thinking?