In my case, N's mother was an extremely sweet, but terribly codependent person. She would literally give you the shirt off her back, even if you spent the last week and a half blatantly robbing her. It was her fatal flaw, unfortunately. She could not break away from enabling her two very mentally unstable, sociopathic children. She could just never say no, because she was so afraid of them not "loving" her, or thinking that she didn't "love" them.
The N's father, on the other hand, was the ultimate source of the N traits. He is a true N, one of probably very few true to-the-bone disordered humans. He is extremely dangerous, and will go to the point of calling people ethnic slurs to their face while taking the food out of their grocery cart to put in his own (this is a very handsome, seemingly well-to-do older gentleman) or worse, having his toddler children call people ethnic slurs, because as he says "No one has the balls to really call you out in public."
I think the recipe of a dangerous sociopathic father, and the ultimate enabling mother is what created the N/socio monsters that are xn and his sister. |
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