Annie, In short, yes. Your father seems to definitely be an N. I have a "religious" N father, who is having financial difficulties and believes that it's because his children aren't righteous enough. In short, because I don't have enough time to go more into detail, get bad childhood good life, curl up with your awesome husband and forget your father exists. He will never change, you will never have a loving father, and there will always be the people who believe that you are evil because of his sob story... Don't let him into your home to mess up your kids and your marriage and your life. Best regards Gretchen |