Hi Iam4Freedom

 

I'm so sorry to hear that you lost your Mum.  I'm in my 40's and have recently realised my sister is an N.  NeverAgain has given you good advice, an independent person would probably be a great help.  Remember, the Ns are always right about everything and it is so draining dealing with them.  You won't do right, so why try.  Get some help so that you can take a little step back and look after yourself while dealing with settling everything.  I know that I have been drained dry by my N sis, she's a nightmare!