Dolly - I feel like you took the words right out of my mouth there!  I had to go by Nmoms house the other day to borrow something and unfortunately my Dad wasnt in the house so she was able to make the nastiest remark to me.  She said something to the effect of  ..... if you could find/keep a man "maybe HE could support you".  I asked her what she said cuz I was walking away and I didnt totally catch it.  She commented back "oh never mind that was SILLY" .... SILLY????? WTH there was nothing silly about it, it was just plain belittling and sarcastic!  She knows full well of my recent departure from the PsychoBoy and that I have NO interest in dating much less a bf or husband!  I wanted to ring her neck so bad .. instead I just bit my tongue and quietly walked out!  I havent talked to her since but she did call .... I answered her question by email.

 

Thanks so much for sharing your stories ladies.  Ive just discovered why i hate my mom so much in the past couple months.  Its so nice to see Im not alone and Im not wrong either!  I hope to be doing as well as you all are someday soon!

 

WTHJH