You are right Kitcat, just look at how they treated their own parents. My nm put my father's mother into a nursing home the second she had a stroke, and took all her money. She wanted to put her nm in one too, however, my aunt kept her from doing that.

Like you, I never want to be a burden to my children, and I would hope that they would do only what they wanted to do.

My nm has a n bro prince who sits on the other side of God according to her. He is a sadistic narcissistic creep.

Hugs,

Had