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| | From:  dis_jointed (Original Message) | Sent: 16/11/2008 11:41 p.m. |
My xN is bizarre.
He has referred to himself having sex with own his child when 18 or so.
He talks about him having sex with men - though I'm sure he hasn't *yet* done it, he says he 'should'
He has said I should have a three some with my brother and my brother's fiancee.
Is he saying these things for shock value or is he really twisted enough to carry out these things??
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Omg........thank God he's the xn is all I can say. I dunno, is he bouncing this stuff off of you to see your reaction because even he thinks it's nucking futs???? I think he's really twisted enough. Stay away and please tell me there are no kids...... |
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Nice people don't talk that way. Lose him. Quick. GN |
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My ex talked of 3 somes, liked girls 20 years younger which made me feel bad. Was involved in secretive sex fantasies. I think for sure he has a sexual addiction. When i told him he was weird - he laughed in kind of a bizarre manner. If you are comfortable with anything goes its ok - but if u think its bizarre and it makes you think twice - I'd keep asking questions. Its still ok to enjoy a healthy sex life and be in a normal realtionship with a guy. I'd ask some questions. |
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He sounds like a perverted sex addict, somatic N. Keep your children away from him. It he would say those things to you he is definitely a sicko. I think sometimes they test us to see how far we will go along with their sick sex fantasy's The n I was with, sexualized everything. He use to watch inappropriate tv with his son. It was embarrassing to me. He wanted his son to be just like him, a sex addict. I would have to leave the room at times. It caused many fights between us. He would let him watch any thing the son wanted. He was only eight years old. He loved any thing violent or sexual. He went from watching sponge bob to watching South Park and Adult Swim not to mention all the rated R movies.
I should have realized that anyone who thinks about sex all the time would eventually cheat. Sex was the most important thing in the world to him until he found OW and got hook on weed and pain pills.
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mine talked about 3somes but with me, him and *another guy* - I said, ugh, yuck (even though it was hypothetical and he had no one in mind - still!!!!)
Then of course there was him saying *daily* that he wanted to be a male escort and take *cougars* to weddings and such, in exchange for money. (like anyone would actually pay to be with an overweight guy who thinks so highly of himself.)
Then he used to talk about my own mother and say he'd be her naked handyman around the house, or take her out. (my father is deceased)...or basically imply it'd be nice to leech off of her.
The things he says are mind boggling.
I'll look up somatic Ns now....
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The N I was with told me on our first valentine's day about three women who showed up at his door after work. He said they came there for a threesome. I got mad bust never said a word to the three women until the first D&D. They told me that he invited one of them and the other two went along with her. He had candles and bloody mary's made. They told me that they smoked all his weed and left, but not before he tried to kiss to the one he invited. She ran out and called him a freak. The girls were people I worked with and they were the kind of women who did the threesomes. The funny thing is I'm the one that told him about them. I gave him the bait and he went right to it. Looked me in the eye and never said a word until 5 months later on Valentine's day. What a jerk. He was testing my boundaries. I forgave him, because I didn't want to ruin valentine's day and his son was with his mother over night. It was the first time that we had a weekend alone and I didn't want to ruin it. I realize now he wanted to start a fight so that he could be free of me, too.
It's funny how after your away for a while you see things so much clearer and you realize the lies and manipulations were even more than you ever knew. How you made excuses and lived in denial. My eyes are wide open and I can't make excuses anymore. He is what he is and he always will be. |
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My xNbf stopped having sex with me once and said... "Rod - rhymes with God - and don't you ever forget it!!!"
OMG what a tool!!! LOL!!! |
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OMG Disjointed!!!!!!!!!! How disturbed was I when I read that!!! Even if he fantasised - he is a sick freaking puppy!!! GET AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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| | | From: prieta | Sent: 22/11/2008 2:21 a.m. |
dis_jointed i hope he remains your ex forever and ever. what a sicko. and he was gauging your reaction to those things to see if you would be revolted or not. he was testing you; they try to pull you into their perverted behavior but need to see how far you will let things go. stay away from him, please, he is very ill. |
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