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From: XtraMSN NicknameDrummersnipes  (Original Message)Sent: 18/11/2008 12:04 a.m.
The psychological complications that make an N an 'N..
 
The N' is part austistic/  part 'P/  part child/  and part bisexual
 
 
They will never feel totally relaxed ...
Even after you have given your all.. to make him/her happy in bed.
 
They are very experimental with trying to figure out why normal people are happy or satisfied
So they will probe and probe in a vain effeort to understand love!
 
Nothing you can do about it!
They will drift from person to person, openly or covertly.
 
let them go and absolutely no contact again
..If you value your sanity and life?
 
 
Best answers to all
Drummer   


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From: XtraMSN Nicknamedis_jointedSent: 18/11/2008 6:19 a.m.
drummer,

mine is definitely the child/bi/P but autistic? to what are you referring? I'm curious!


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From: XtraMSN NicknameTrixiebelle89Sent: 18/11/2008 11:51 a.m.
Doesnt autistic in this sense mean emotionally one dimensional?  It's not autism in the true sense but a part of the N/P syndrome.
 
 They cannot relate with us as people, only in a one way type of relationship  We don't exist in their reality as 'another'.  They literally cannot relate as in autism and  thats why they appear so egocentric and self absorbed.

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From: XtraMSN NicknameTrixiebelle89Sent: 18/11/2008 11:54 a.m.
P.s. .. mine was  all the above but never bisexual??  very strictly straight.

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From: XtraMSN NicknameDrummersnipesSent: 19/11/2008 7:38 p.m.
Yes.
 
The 'part austistic' is where the 'N simply cannot learn about a very impotant part of life, called love
 
As normal loving folk, love is something that we treasure,
Why do we treasure it so  much?
Simply because without love, life doesn't make much sense.
 
 
Whereas the autistic child doesn't respond to certain stimuli..
The 'N cannot learn why love is deep and important to normal people
Maybe it is a clinical thing?
The 'N sees love as a way to exploit others and plays with them cruelly
And that is what we find repulsive and so alien, as loving people.
 
Love has ethics and it's own moral entity!
Most of us keep within those boundaries
 
But the 'Ns have no morals where love is concerned.
They can function in society and that is another reason they are difficult to pick
So the comparison above, although worlds apart can be made..
 
The part of the brain/mind of the 'N preventing the understanding of true love
 Maybe similar in function to the same lack in the mind of the autistic child
 
 
Drummer

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From: XtraMSN NicknameDrummersnipesSent: 19/11/2008 7:48 p.m.
As in all things there are variables, sure.

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From: XtraMSN NicknameGemma108Sent: 21/11/2008 7:44 p.m.
Very much bi-sexual - although she says she "falls in love" with women and not men.  She will have sex with a man for ns if she is lonely. She can never be alone or without attention.  If she can, she will even sleep with men the female object of her infatuation wants to sleep with. OUCH.
 
She says when she was young she slept with many many men.  I felt so sad for her. 
I am a lesbian - I know it and don't want a man - although I like men and find them attractive - they're just not for me.

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