<WBR>Hi again, eyes!
Yes, nc is the ONLY way to forget them and put them in our past. I think about the abuser I was married to for 20 years, and I have no feelings for him one way or another. I know with nc I will eventually feel this way about n. He wanted to be friends too, but I can't be friends with someone I don't respect, someone who lies and cheats. So don't even THINK about being his friend. He has no real friends, he doesn't know the meaning of friendship or love.
I am on the new forum but MISS the daily emails. I wish the new forum would give us the option of receiving posts in our emails. Guess I will get used to it over time. I was hoping some of us could stay in contact this way, but not sure how we can pass email addys to each other.
Hang in there, we are in this together!!!!!!!!!!!!
OzGirl
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From: NARCISSISTIC_PERSONALITY_DISORDER <[email protected]>
To: NARCISSISTIC_PERSONALITY_DISORDER <[email protected]>
Sent: Sun, 16 Nov 2008 11:54 pm
Subject: NC, true meanings of? his abuse gets worse with each return, i need help with NC
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From: eyesopen_nowgirl
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i tried to be friendly these last days for i hate fighting and i want to live in
peace. for some crazy thought i thought i could be his friend. but it was still
all about him, he still controlled me and demanded my time.then if i did
something not with him he punished me with words and pushed my buttons still i
would act like him outloud. i guess perhaps we all need to get to our fork in
the road or our LINE that can't be crossed, yes i had mind. i tried to be a
friend in the end----only to be set up to take the fall for his pain, for i
inhaled his pain and he took my joy. i tried to talk with him but he called the
cops ....cause he can not face his true reasons for being mad i did something
without him. for he felt like he lost his soul when i try to have time for
myself...i know know that is unhealthy and it is mere control. i will do NC, not
look at his house, not think of him ...i pray for the silent tx now.......please
tell me this shall pass. my family is behind me all the way and i will continue
therapy about WHY i let him back in instead of HOW to get him out of my heart?
everyone here has been great. now i need to hear that i will forgot him and one
day i will not even need a physical wall to keep my heart safe.NC is the way
but it must be total NC without games and what if's.
also i tried to go to other site but i had a hard time with passwords etc.
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