<WBR>Just yesterday, I had his number blocked on my land line. Of course, he could call from a different number, but I'm not answering any numbers I do not recognize. THEN I got my cell phone changed for FREE.......a one time deal with ATT due to harassing phone calls. So if he calls my old number he will hear a recording that my phone is no longer in service. If he calls my land line he will hear a message saying "this caller is not taking calls at this time". I feel very relieved because I don't know if he has tried to call or not, and I DO NOT CARE!!!!!!! I feel I have taken my power back by doing this. I have tried NC before, but KNOW I have to stick to it this time. The only way I can call him is with my cell because he is long distance (I can't call l/d on my land line) so if I were to do that, I would be giving him my number, which I refuse to do. I feel like it all is a tool that I have put in place to protect myself from him, and to protect my self from the obsessive nightmare of me calling him again. It is a very good feeling, and I am sure I will not ever contact him again. He did send me email yesterday morning, which I ignored. So 24 hours for me the second time around. The FINAL time around. I'm so done. I actually hate the liar and do not ever want to go back there where I am tortured 24/7.
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From: NARCISSISTIC_PERSONALITY_DISORDER <[email protected]>
To: NARCISSISTIC_PERSONALITY_DISORDER <[email protected]>
Sent: Fri, 14 Nov 2008 4:08 pm
Subject: Re: HE KEEPS THROWIN THE BAIT OUT..NOT TAKIN IT..HELP!
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From: kyrajames
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Rayanne- have you changed your number? If you can, to feel the full effect of
total NC, then cut him off completely with email, and your phone, make sure he
cannot call you at all. Myself, I was really massively relieved to change my
phone number, to know that the p could not mess with us anymore, and that there
was not a chance he would contact again. I have, in my time here, also read of
quite a few members that have felt this relief- of being able to move on
uninterrupted in their own healing. You have made a choice, Ray. You made a
choice to find out about NPD, and you are coming to terms with what he is- and
also as to what he did to you. You have made a conscious decision to avoid the
n- I am just here to tell you that there are options that can aid you further in
your healing. While the n is still calling you and being spoken to, you are
still connected. He is still trying to play the triangulation game with you.
But you can put an end to this. The next time the n calls, he can get a "This
number is no longer in service" message. And your email will just be sent back
to him. And then, right there with those actions, you are saying "I'm done. It's
over, I am not going to be used by you anymore." This is you, taking your power
back. The choice is yours, but it can make things a lot easier. ((((HUG))))
Lots of Love, Love Kyra xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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