Dear Chatte,

 

Get away from him and stay away. Be grateful it has been 4 years and no more... You know he is not going to change, and can't but you can change your life for the better by moving on. Please go forward and not backward. I kept falling for my N's BS for so long, nice, mean, nice, mean, mean, mean, then a little nice to throw me a crumb to keep me hanging on. Thats what they do. Just do it-go-I promise the pain won't ever compare to the pain of staying with him. I wasted 8 years of my life and I will never get stuck with one of these evil creeps again. I wish you all the strength and love. You can do this.