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From: XtraMSN Nicknamejojo_starts_again  (Original Message)Sent: 28/10/2008 2:30 p.m.
after what happened last night , i told my solicitor about it and about how it is affecting me and my daughter , even though shes 18.
I have been told that he might be able to be removed from the house soon or ive got to think about being rehoused.
I dont know which one to go for , because at the end of the day our house is going to be sold anyway...........??

but ive decided whatever way - ive had enough and im leaving him.

Jo x x


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From: XtraMSN NicknamekyrajamesSent: 28/10/2008 4:41 p.m.
Good for you, Jo! I am really happy that you have come to this realisation.
Be strong, okay? It isn't going to be easy, but you are halfway there to crawling out of this hell.
You will be free, when you leave, and however much the n tries to enforce his iron fist on to you, and try to control you- remember that you got out and you are free.
 
If you can't wait- and this I am worried about because you said he can be violent- then there are Domestic Violence shelters that can help you.
 
Stay safe, okay?
(((Hugs)))
Lots of Love, Love Kyra xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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From: XtraMSN Nicknamegoingnorth2Sent: 28/10/2008 4:55 p.m.
Yeah, JoJo -- be in a safe place.  No matter what ele, be in a safe place. 
 
Keep us posted, please.  xo
 
Gloria

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From: XtraMSN Nicknameshamu571Sent: 28/10/2008 5:11 p.m.
Jojo,

Great for you making a big progress!

I have been reading your posts. I think you and I are at the same stage. I still live with NH in the same house and dealing with his craps everyday over our divorce.

Be strong. I will be thinking of you.

Take care of yourself and your daughter.

HUGS, SHAMU

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From: XtraMSN NicknameCinderella343Sent: 28/10/2008 5:15 p.m.
Good for you jojo!
The first step in the right direction is getting away from them physically!
You'll be amazed at how much better you feel once you're away from that toxic person!
I've said it for 8 months, and will say it the rest of my life~The best thing I did was boot the bum OUT of my house and life!
 
Even though we know they're toxic, and need to be as far away from them as possible.
It's still amazing once you have rid yourself of these losers how much better you feel!
 
There's no words to describe how happy I've been for the last 8 months.
 
You have to start thinking about your daughter and yourself, and taking care of both of you.
 
I have been livid since discovering what kind of influence xn was with my 18 year old son.
In my house, right under my nose he was encouraging my son to experiment with illegal drugs!
What kind of loser would do something like that!?
My son is a good kid, never given me any trouble, excellent student attending college and working.
XN couldn't handle the fact that my son isn't a loser like him and his kids, so in turn he attempted to corrupt my son.
THAT is pretty sick!
 
It's important to get our kids away from them as it is getting away ourselves!
 
Good Luck to you and stay strong and safe!

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From: XtraMSN Nicknamebumpy_rider2Sent: 28/10/2008 5:26 p.m.
Good grief Cinderella!!! I didn't think an N was even capable of going THAT far! Chilling.....absolutely chilling that he would be so envious of his OWN SON'S accomplishments, that he would try to drag him down to his level! Unbelievable...

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