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First off...Parenchyma don't kick my rear too hard! I all ready did!!
A mutual friend talked to xn.......she told me what he said and i have all ready told her i don't ever want to hear about him again> I think want sh said may have helped some, but i need your thoughts>>> listen to this>>>>
-he called this friend--his relative--never in front of his new gf--this was the first time they have talked since we split. Keeping secrets all ready?
-he wanted to touch base before the holidays as that is the only time they talk to make sure she wasn't angry about us--@ months in advance??
-he told her he broke us off to work on himself---he's happy and never could have done it with me-----(right, blame me)
-he didn't know if we still talked or not...HA right...yes he did!! we were great friends and if it took her 3 months to call her.....
-The kicker....."I hope she is able to move on and find someone like I did".....WHAT??????
The rest of the conversation was all about him....never asked the relative a thing about me (thankfully) and never asked the relative about how she was......love that!!!
So....I have my thoughts on the kicker.....just curious of yours....
Seriously......at first i cried when i heard all of this. Then i thought of the lies and how many people did he call when i wasn't around....and .....I thought....I was so good to him for too long,,,,time to find me again and be soooo good to me!!
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| | Sent: 30/10/2008 2:41 a.m. |
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'I hope she is able to move on and find someone like I did" He left out the part about WHEN he found someone, didn't he? Gloria |
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[Parenchyma don't kick my rear too hard] LOL! No kicking from me. Just don't analyze it too much, he's got swiss cheese for brains is all you need to remember. |
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| | Sent: 30/10/2008 2:47 a.m. |
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Yeah!! He figured she would tell me......and yes....he had her all lined up and never told me...even the day i moved out he said "never say never"......UGH!! She walked in the back door as I walked out the front.
Yes....I hope she moves on and finds someone like i did...
First off bucko.....I am not going to pine away forever and I don't need someone to make me happy. What i do need is time to grieve any relationship and I don't ever want to hurt someone by jumping into anything....oh..that's right. I'm normal and you are not! How soon i forget...guess I am angry!!
Sometimes...i want to remember the good in him...i forget....then i have to remember the ending--so cruel....he was so cruel. I don't know that man...yes...i do....he was always there.....oh my!
Yes, he was........moving on!!!! I need to keep that man in my mind and not go to fleeting romance. |
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| I second, double triple Gloria's post.. He left out WHEN.. what an empty piece of sh*t.. and it sounds exactly like something my exNH would say. ooo, I'm seething now. I can even picture my own exNH saying this patronizing BS! I'm so sorry you had to even hear this notyouroption. |
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Yeah, Gloria is the best.
Always another half dozen or so waiting in the wings, with one or two primary/secondaries that may often change place.
Never a moment alone, that would surely be death.
To bad that it isn't literally true! |
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| | Sent: 30/10/2008 3:12 a.m. |
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oh..that's right. I'm normal and you are not! Do you know how accurate that sentence of yours actually is, notyour? Dollars to donuts he envies you because it must appear to him that you have moved on and you moved on without sticking yourself right in the middle of another situation the way he did. It never fails--they always leap on impulse and start regretting it. So he envies you your backbone, so what's his suggestion? That you go get another situation to prove that you make bad choices the way he does so he doesn't have to envy you any more. Goodness, they're tiresome! God love ya, ~mems PS: "Bucko..." <gigglesnorts> |
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